I think its a shame to promote values systems that reward creepy and dishonest behavior. Were Aniston to point out that Pitt did her a dirty she would be called that cheap shot catchall reserved for women but less than honorable actions should be called for what they are more often.

Mollie, santa fe, usa

This article gives itself away when it cites Greer and Burchill as female role models. Whilst I respect what these women have achieved in their careers, I do not take their angry and often self-important invectives as as blueprint for how I would like to behave myself ('if *only* I had the guts'!).

Nemira, Manchester, UK

You guys act as if he had a choice. He was married. What happened to recognizing that? Jen handled it how she wanted to. Angelina has Brad so now she needs to just be quiet. She is wrong on all obstacles.

Josephine, Vacaville, CA, US

Anna - if Angelina is every man's dream, how come she has had a stream of failed relationships, whereas Jen had a stable marriage? Why the relief in these men?

Angelina is, I would argue, every man's nightmare. Undeniably physically attractive, but disturbed in the head and self obsessed.

Tom Franklin, London, UK

What your article should be advising women is to not put off motherhood in favour of a career.
Mel, London,

Where do you get this "put off motherhood" nonsense from? I don't know ANY WOMAN who has ever done this. They haven't met a man who wants to settle down, that's the problem.

Helen E., London, UK

Any man would go for Angelina over the boring, needy & nauseating Jen -Angelina is every man's dream & most women's nightmare - I expect many of the anti- Ange fans are the one's whose husbands have philandered & so they feel the jealous need to hate Angelina . She doesn't chase men, they chase her.

Anna, London , UK

Mel - you're sick of the Jen sympathy? I'm sick of being told not put off motherhood in favour of a career. It's not modern woman theory, its that reality of the fact that the man you're advising us to rely upon may leave you (see Brad Pitt) and all you have left is your career (see Jen).

S, Leeds,

Jennifer handled this a lot better then most.
How dare Angelina announce to the world that she was inlove with a Married man and not expect anyone to respond.
If Brad, really did confront Jen, he did it for that for his mess of a girlfriend. Who I guess thought her comments would be admired.

Lisa , SSF, USA

Angelina is a mess,. This is not the first home she wrecked. Remember Laura Dern coming home to find her Boyfriend Billy bob married to Angelina and her stuff in storage.
Angelina is a disturbed human being. Her charity work is not going to fix her dark soul. Nor is having Angel in her name

Sonia, New York, USA

Jennifer Aniston continues to demonstrate why women the world over love her. She could easily have gotten into a war of words but she remained calm and lady-like. Jennifer is one classy lady, especially when compared with Angelina (look at her rather scary relationship history).

Michelle, Glasgow,

i am apalled by the article that somehow defies all boundaries of being mature and callously lauds angelina for being a sexy vixen. if being beautiful means breaking up homes then im sorry i dont wanna buy this definition. I respect jennifers calm response!!!angelina is no role model!

Maha, Karachi, Pak

As a fellow Greek I think Jennifer needs to go back to her roots, and I don't mean the politics or democracy. The Greeks were always good at war and destroying those who tried to hurt them. This includes Brad and Angie. Strong words? Yes. But don't mess with families, especially a Big Fat Greek ones

Andreas , Lichfield, UK

I wish this was still the 18th century and they would have given Jolee a scarlet letter to wear. Come on, she hated her dad for years because he left her mother for another women. Well do you believe in Karma? I can't wait.

Rebecca, Texas, US

Rumana: a beautiful, talented and caring human being cares for other women too. Jolie is most definitely not a "role model for the modern day woman".

A role model would say to a married man "You're married. I respect other women. Sort your life out. When you're single, call me. Not before."

Laura Roberts, London, UK

Has anyone ever heard of being discreet? No matter what happened between them, keep the details to yourself in that type of situation. And Jen never said she did not want a family with Brad. Quite the contrary. Media at it's best.

Beth, Jackson, USA

Give Ange a break! so what she fell in love with a married man, let's not forget Brad was the one in a relationship and he could have said no! Angelina Jolie is a fantastic role model for the modern day woman. She is beautiful, talented and a caring human being.

Rumana , London , United Kingdom

I am sick of this Jennnifer sympathy. She is not the first woman to lose her husband to a younger woman. What your article should be advising women is to not put off motherhood in favour of a career. I know it goes against the modern woman theory, but we need to be real.

Mel, London,

Publicly Brad and Angelina may appear perfect and happy, but inside them will continue to exist shame. The mere fact that Jolie continues to reveal tidbits about the beginning of Brad's affair with her show a deep need to explain themselves and to be accepted.

Success won't erase internal shame.

joan, Newport, USA

The only reason the reporter would ask Ms. Aniston a question about Ms. Jolie is to provoke a response that the celebrity media could feast on for many days like vultures.

Robin, SJ, USA

So these days a refusal to publicly rage against and insult your ex's new partner (especially when the media can't get over your marriage breakup and wants to keep harping on it) is a sign of weakness? Interesting - I was brought up to believe it was maturity and showing a little dignity.

Hol, London, UK

Just see the reall world and the right for the couple.Not to cheat on wife and husband.Because it`s gonna hurt one`s heart.The person who hurt one`s heart is not the human being.just the animal who don`t think about anything,the right,the wrong.The animal just think,sex is feel good.

rujira kobayashi, Osaka, Japan

But,the real Human being always think of the wife who is getting married with.not the girls in the office or a beautiful woman who he work with.Brad and Angelina really do the Big mistake.not to themself.but also to the world.

rujira kobayashi, Osaka, Japan

I have children.They`re teenager.They read the Newspaper or the magazines and always ask me that Can I have another girl friends or bf while get married with wife or husband like Angelina and Brad pitt?Oh my god.I can`t believe that question!My children think,cheating wife or husband is cool???

rujira kobayashi, Osaka, Japan